"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is she pissed about being DE-virginized?

WORKEROUTER

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So long story short, I had banged and devirginzed a girl I'd been dating for a while.

She's been holding it off for a while, but I finally got in her.

Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?

Any remarks from other fellow DJ's who have taken a girl's virginity before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How old is she? How long have you been seeing eachother?

Some girls really value their virginity and drama ensues when anything disrupts that. Maybe she is regretting it or having second thoughts about whether or not she should have done it.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?
You can expect that she has no skills in the bedroom and is a pretty much useless sex toy. Like all young girls she's probably doesn't even know what's going on. Can you tell this girl to do anything and she'll do it? If so, I've been in your position and I can't stand those types of girls.
 

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Yeah, the first time having sex was her was a little sh*tty. First of all it took forever to get my d*ck inside her.


Once inside though, I propped her legs on my shoulders and went to town though.

She obviously isn't the greatest in bed, but she has a good body and is willing to bang. Plus, I don't mind helping her out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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