"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she pissed about being DE-virginized?

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So long story short, I had banged and devirginzed a girl I'd been dating for a while.

She's been holding it off for a while, but I finally got in her.

Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?

Any remarks from other fellow DJ's who have taken a girl's virginity before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How old is she? How long have you been seeing eachother?

Some girls really value their virginity and drama ensues when anything disrupts that. Maybe she is regretting it or having second thoughts about whether or not she should have done it.
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?
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You can expect that she has no skills in the bedroom and is a pretty much useless sex toy. Like all young girls she's probably doesn't even know what's going on. Can you tell this girl to do anything and she'll do it? If so, I've been in your position and I can't stand those types of girls.
 
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Yeah, the first time having sex was her was a little sh*tty. First of all it took forever to get my d*ck inside her.


Once inside though, I propped her legs on my shoulders and went to town though.

She obviously isn't the greatest in bed, but she has a good body and is willing to bang. Plus, I don't mind helping her out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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