Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is she pissed about being DE-virginized?

WORKEROUTER

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So long story short, I had banged and devirginzed a girl I'd been dating for a while.

She's been holding it off for a while, but I finally got in her.

Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?

Any remarks from other fellow DJ's who have taken a girl's virginity before?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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How old is she? How long have you been seeing eachother?

Some girls really value their virginity and drama ensues when anything disrupts that. Maybe she is regretting it or having second thoughts about whether or not she should have done it.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?
You can expect that she has no skills in the bedroom and is a pretty much useless sex toy. Like all young girls she's probably doesn't even know what's going on. Can you tell this girl to do anything and she'll do it? If so, I've been in your position and I can't stand those types of girls.
 

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Yeah, the first time having sex was her was a little sh*tty. First of all it took forever to get my d*ck inside her.


Once inside though, I propped her legs on my shoulders and went to town though.

She obviously isn't the greatest in bed, but she has a good body and is willing to bang. Plus, I don't mind helping her out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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