"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys...

I'm in a bit of a situation....

Basically, there's this girl I've been talking to for a while. She's cool, and I sit behind her in English. Flirt with her, say things into her ear, rub her shoulders, whatever....

And I was getting positive vibes. So I ask if she wants to go to the movies on the weekend. She says sure, but she'll call me back after she finds out when she can.

So, its saturday, and she doesn't call back. I don't care, because I just end up jammin' with my friends, but later on I get a message from her.

Her computer was down and she couldn't get my number from it (she wrote it there). Her email was titled "IM SO SORRY". She says she wants a raincheck.

Think she's just a nice girl trying to send me a signal or she's for real? Should I next her or give her another shot?

Thanks in advance.

-PianoPlayah
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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give her another shot. Sh*t does happen, especially with computers.
 
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I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
 
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Originally posted by PianoPlaya
I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
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I dont thin k you should have said for her to call you because now the "ball" is on her court, and now you are the one that is going to have to wait for the phone call.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do something that shows her that she needs to prove herself. say something like:

Her: I'm So SORRY!
you: uh huh.
her: Can i get a raincheck? PLEASE!
you: I don't know i can hangout so many other cool people.
her: please hang out with me
you: why don't we make a deal. I'll go out with you again if you do .... whatever you want.
Just make her prove herself to you.
 
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