"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PianoPlaya

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Hey guys...

I'm in a bit of a situation....

Basically, there's this girl I've been talking to for a while. She's cool, and I sit behind her in English. Flirt with her, say things into her ear, rub her shoulders, whatever....

And I was getting positive vibes. So I ask if she wants to go to the movies on the weekend. She says sure, but she'll call me back after she finds out when she can.

So, its saturday, and she doesn't call back. I don't care, because I just end up jammin' with my friends, but later on I get a message from her.

Her computer was down and she couldn't get my number from it (she wrote it there). Her email was titled "IM SO SORRY". She says she wants a raincheck.

Think she's just a nice girl trying to send me a signal or she's for real? Should I next her or give her another shot?

Thanks in advance.

-PianoPlayah
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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give her another shot. Sh*t does happen, especially with computers.
 
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I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
 
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trd323

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Originally posted by PianoPlaya
I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
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I dont thin k you should have said for her to call you because now the "ball" is on her court, and now you are the one that is going to have to wait for the phone call.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do something that shows her that she needs to prove herself. say something like:

Her: I'm So SORRY!
you: uh huh.
her: Can i get a raincheck? PLEASE!
you: I don't know i can hangout so many other cool people.
her: please hang out with me
you: why don't we make a deal. I'll go out with you again if you do .... whatever you want.
Just make her prove herself to you.
 
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