"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is she for real?

PianoPlaya

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Hey guys...

I'm in a bit of a situation....

Basically, there's this girl I've been talking to for a while. She's cool, and I sit behind her in English. Flirt with her, say things into her ear, rub her shoulders, whatever....

And I was getting positive vibes. So I ask if she wants to go to the movies on the weekend. She says sure, but she'll call me back after she finds out when she can.

So, its saturday, and she doesn't call back. I don't care, because I just end up jammin' with my friends, but later on I get a message from her.

Her computer was down and she couldn't get my number from it (she wrote it there). Her email was titled "IM SO SORRY". She says she wants a raincheck.

Think she's just a nice girl trying to send me a signal or she's for real? Should I next her or give her another shot?

Thanks in advance.

-PianoPlayah
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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trd323

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give her another shot. Sh*t does happen, especially with computers.
 

PianoPlaya

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I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
 

trd323

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Originally posted by PianoPlaya
I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
I dont thin k you should have said for her to call you because now the "ball" is on her court, and now you are the one that is going to have to wait for the phone call.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Master Disaster

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Do something that shows her that she needs to prove herself. say something like:

Her: I'm So SORRY!
you: uh huh.
her: Can i get a raincheck? PLEASE!
you: I don't know i can hangout so many other cool people.
her: please hang out with me
you: why don't we make a deal. I'll go out with you again if you do .... whatever you want.
Just make her prove herself to you.
 
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