"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is she for real?

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Hey guys...

I'm in a bit of a situation....

Basically, there's this girl I've been talking to for a while. She's cool, and I sit behind her in English. Flirt with her, say things into her ear, rub her shoulders, whatever....

And I was getting positive vibes. So I ask if she wants to go to the movies on the weekend. She says sure, but she'll call me back after she finds out when she can.

So, its saturday, and she doesn't call back. I don't care, because I just end up jammin' with my friends, but later on I get a message from her.

Her computer was down and she couldn't get my number from it (she wrote it there). Her email was titled "IM SO SORRY". She says she wants a raincheck.

Think she's just a nice girl trying to send me a signal or she's for real? Should I next her or give her another shot?

Thanks in advance.

-PianoPlayah
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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give her another shot. Sh*t does happen, especially with computers.
 
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I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
 
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Originally posted by PianoPlaya
I told her to 'call me whenever', and that I understood her computer ****.
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I dont thin k you should have said for her to call you because now the "ball" is on her court, and now you are the one that is going to have to wait for the phone call.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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The Master Disaster

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Do something that shows her that she needs to prove herself. say something like:

Her: I'm So SORRY!
you: uh huh.
her: Can i get a raincheck? PLEASE!
you: I don't know i can hangout so many other cool people.
her: please hang out with me
you: why don't we make a deal. I'll go out with you again if you do .... whatever you want.
Just make her prove herself to you.
 
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