I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Serialized3 said:http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/08/26/quality-girl
edit: also http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/
The last one, by far, is the most important. There are girls in just their slightest mannerisms and looks, that almost cannot be described, give them away as women who've been to more than their share of rodeos.
Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
:crackup:Solomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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Im white, and I agree with you :/bish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Agreed...I just don't see the point of writers that single out one group of people and not others for no reason.Danger said:I disagree with both the commenters and the OP link.
White girls can be horrendous sluts as shown in the Clubs by making out with others, whilst Black girls are hardly to be found in the Clubs.
However, that does not mean they are not sluts, just sluts of a different brand. What I do see from my experience is that a larger number of black women have kids from multiple daddies.
There are different ways to measure sluttiness.
http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htmSolomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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I have never seen a black girl make out with another girl and I've been going to clubs for ages. I co-sign that list, it probably happens but I sure ain't seen itbish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
You got facts I'll give you that, not gonna argue with those numbers but you forget numnuts that African Americans are only 12% of the population so even though the numbers may be double or higher, whites still beat us out in most of those categorizes, while percentage wise blacks dominate. On top of that African-American men(not all) are still on the downlow so a women could be sleeping with a Bigjimbo(gay guy who sleeps with women) and not know it, hence the STD contraction goes up.BigJimbo said:http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htm
Wow, how wrong you are. Explain these facts? Some of you like to make up strange stories.
Solomon definitely hates whites and Asians. He sends me posts poking fun of Asians (he thinks I am one).
Try to make an investment decision just based on your gut. Doesn't work so well. You need to take into account more than just your "gut" feeling.SamTheHobit said:Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
Slut for you, slut for me, sluts for everybody! What's the problem? Just don't be stupid and get attached, also clean your slut before use because you don't know where she's been.I agree 100 percent. This must be the best slut defence!! Unless of course your into sluts :/
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
90% of american women would fall under one of those categories.DJ Logic said:- Excessive swearing
- Skimpy clothes (I am NOT a wh0re even though I dress like one)
- Excessive makeup
- More guy than girl friends
- Little to no resistance even though we just met
- Doesn't insist on a condom
- Poor hygiene
- Careless attitude
- Drinking/drugs
- Psychological problems (NPD, BPD, schizo, sociopath)
This is gold!Razor Sharp said:FWIW, if you have to ask yourself this question at any point, then there is a 90% chance that the answer is "yes". A good woman will leave very little margin for doubt as to her true character.
Danger said:Numbers mean nothing. It's all about the percentages.
F*cking numbers, how do the work?!Solomon said:Aren't Numbers and Percentages the same thing?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sluts are dirty and have STD's =/The Assistant said:only virgins and haters consider certain girls sluts.......she's as much of a slut as YOU are a hateful jealous virgin.
Get rid of the word slut from your vocabulary dummy, that word does not help ANY guy get laid.
There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/Huffman said:Aren't you the guy who thinks he's gonna die a virgin? I don't want to insult you, but it means that up to now, you've only seen the negative side of things, but never the positive. And you sound like one of those people who blindly and needlessly hate on sluts. Girls are so horribly afraid of being labeled sluts because of that. People hate what they can't handle!
I mean hey, where's the problem? Are "sluts" deceiving you? Do they punch you or rob you? No, they're just sluts, so if you don't like them stay away from them.
On the other hand, if you meet a loose girl and you can see her for what she is - goddamn have some fun!
Then think about the people on this board, the ones that are successful - they have the same lack of morals (and sometimes disease? haha). Does it get to you?SamTheHobit said:There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.