You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Serialized3 said:http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/08/26/quality-girl
edit: also http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/
The last one, by far, is the most important. There are girls in just their slightest mannerisms and looks, that almost cannot be described, give them away as women who've been to more than their share of rodeos.
Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
:crackup:Solomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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Im white, and I agree with you :/bish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agreed...I just don't see the point of writers that single out one group of people and not others for no reason.Danger said:I disagree with both the commenters and the OP link.
White girls can be horrendous sluts as shown in the Clubs by making out with others, whilst Black girls are hardly to be found in the Clubs.
However, that does not mean they are not sluts, just sluts of a different brand. What I do see from my experience is that a larger number of black women have kids from multiple daddies.
There are different ways to measure sluttiness.
http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htmSolomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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I have never seen a black girl make out with another girl and I've been going to clubs for ages. I co-sign that list, it probably happens but I sure ain't seen itbish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
You got facts I'll give you that, not gonna argue with those numbers but you forget numnuts that African Americans are only 12% of the population so even though the numbers may be double or higher, whites still beat us out in most of those categorizes, while percentage wise blacks dominate. On top of that African-American men(not all) are still on the downlow so a women could be sleeping with a Bigjimbo(gay guy who sleeps with women) and not know it, hence the STD contraction goes up.BigJimbo said:http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htm
Wow, how wrong you are. Explain these facts? Some of you like to make up strange stories.
Solomon definitely hates whites and Asians. He sends me posts poking fun of Asians (he thinks I am one).
Try to make an investment decision just based on your gut. Doesn't work so well. You need to take into account more than just your "gut" feeling.SamTheHobit said:Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
Slut for you, slut for me, sluts for everybody! What's the problem? Just don't be stupid and get attached, also clean your slut before use because you don't know where she's been.I agree 100 percent. This must be the best slut defence!! Unless of course your into sluts :/
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
90% of american women would fall under one of those categories.DJ Logic said:- Excessive swearing
- Skimpy clothes (I am NOT a wh0re even though I dress like one)
- Excessive makeup
- More guy than girl friends
- Little to no resistance even though we just met
- Doesn't insist on a condom
- Poor hygiene
- Careless attitude
- Drinking/drugs
- Psychological problems (NPD, BPD, schizo, sociopath)
This is gold!Razor Sharp said:FWIW, if you have to ask yourself this question at any point, then there is a 90% chance that the answer is "yes". A good woman will leave very little margin for doubt as to her true character.
Danger said:Numbers mean nothing. It's all about the percentages.
F*cking numbers, how do the work?!Solomon said:Aren't Numbers and Percentages the same thing?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sluts are dirty and have STD's =/The Assistant said:only virgins and haters consider certain girls sluts.......she's as much of a slut as YOU are a hateful jealous virgin.
Get rid of the word slut from your vocabulary dummy, that word does not help ANY guy get laid.
There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/Huffman said:Aren't you the guy who thinks he's gonna die a virgin? I don't want to insult you, but it means that up to now, you've only seen the negative side of things, but never the positive. And you sound like one of those people who blindly and needlessly hate on sluts. Girls are so horribly afraid of being labeled sluts because of that. People hate what they can't handle!
I mean hey, where's the problem? Are "sluts" deceiving you? Do they punch you or rob you? No, they're just sluts, so if you don't like them stay away from them.
On the other hand, if you meet a loose girl and you can see her for what she is - goddamn have some fun!
Then think about the people on this board, the ones that are successful - they have the same lack of morals (and sometimes disease? haha). Does it get to you?SamTheHobit said:There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.