You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serialized3 said:http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/08/26/quality-girl
edit: also http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/
The last one, by far, is the most important. There are girls in just their slightest mannerisms and looks, that almost cannot be described, give them away as women who've been to more than their share of rodeos.
Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
:crackup:Solomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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Im white, and I agree with you :/bish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Agreed...I just don't see the point of writers that single out one group of people and not others for no reason.Danger said:I disagree with both the commenters and the OP link.
White girls can be horrendous sluts as shown in the Clubs by making out with others, whilst Black girls are hardly to be found in the Clubs.
However, that does not mean they are not sluts, just sluts of a different brand. What I do see from my experience is that a larger number of black women have kids from multiple daddies.
There are different ways to measure sluttiness.
http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htmSolomon said:Ironic that the author claims black women are more promiscuous when in the black community black men go after the white women for their promiscuity, I'm still looking for the black edition of "Girls Gone Wild" it's been 7 years and they still haven't made it
In college the it wasn't the black girls sucking of the athletes etc or getting knocked up
Hey can' get mad at me
"Its my experience"
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I have never seen a black girl make out with another girl and I've been going to clubs for ages. I co-sign that list, it probably happens but I sure ain't seen itbish0p said::crackup:
Yeah, it's funny isn't it?
I hear these same stereotypes about white girls ALL THE TIME (and seen it) and yet, the negative stereotypes always manage to find its way back to black people somehow....like we're the only ethnic group that can do wrong.
I mean, all you have to do is go to the club and who do you see making out in clubs? White girls. Who are the girls that are jumping on the bar, taking their shirts off and shaking their titties? White girls. Who are the girls sexually dancing and making out with other girls just to get attention from the guys? White girls.
I have never seen black girls or any other girls from other ethnic groups, besides white girls, do these things. I've never even heard stories of black girls being as slutty as white girls.
You got facts I'll give you that, not gonna argue with those numbers but you forget numnuts that African Americans are only 12% of the population so even though the numbers may be double or higher, whites still beat us out in most of those categorizes, while percentage wise blacks dominate. On top of that African-American men(not all) are still on the downlow so a women could be sleeping with a Bigjimbo(gay guy who sleeps with women) and not know it, hence the STD contraction goes up.BigJimbo said:http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/african_american_fs.htm
Wow, how wrong you are. Explain these facts? Some of you like to make up strange stories.
Solomon definitely hates whites and Asians. He sends me posts poking fun of Asians (he thinks I am one).
Try to make an investment decision just based on your gut. Doesn't work so well. You need to take into account more than just your "gut" feeling.SamTheHobit said:Your gut is NOT a sensitive organ, when it senses something, you better listen.
Slut for you, slut for me, sluts for everybody! What's the problem? Just don't be stupid and get attached, also clean your slut before use because you don't know where she's been.I agree 100 percent. This must be the best slut defence!! Unless of course your into sluts :/
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
90% of american women would fall under one of those categories.DJ Logic said:- Excessive swearing
- Skimpy clothes (I am NOT a wh0re even though I dress like one)
- Excessive makeup
- More guy than girl friends
- Little to no resistance even though we just met
- Doesn't insist on a condom
- Poor hygiene
- Careless attitude
- Drinking/drugs
- Psychological problems (NPD, BPD, schizo, sociopath)
This is gold!Razor Sharp said:FWIW, if you have to ask yourself this question at any point, then there is a 90% chance that the answer is "yes". A good woman will leave very little margin for doubt as to her true character.
Danger said:Numbers mean nothing. It's all about the percentages.
F*cking numbers, how do the work?!Solomon said:Aren't Numbers and Percentages the same thing?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sluts are dirty and have STD's =/The Assistant said:only virgins and haters consider certain girls sluts.......she's as much of a slut as YOU are a hateful jealous virgin.
Get rid of the word slut from your vocabulary dummy, that word does not help ANY guy get laid.
There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/Huffman said:Aren't you the guy who thinks he's gonna die a virgin? I don't want to insult you, but it means that up to now, you've only seen the negative side of things, but never the positive. And you sound like one of those people who blindly and needlessly hate on sluts. Girls are so horribly afraid of being labeled sluts because of that. People hate what they can't handle!
I mean hey, where's the problem? Are "sluts" deceiving you? Do they punch you or rob you? No, they're just sluts, so if you don't like them stay away from them.
On the other hand, if you meet a loose girl and you can see her for what she is - goddamn have some fun!
Then think about the people on this board, the ones that are successful - they have the same lack of morals (and sometimes disease? haha). Does it get to you?SamTheHobit said:There lack of morals and the disease that they spread get to me. =/
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.