Master Don Juan
- Jun 9, 2019
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it's fine to make these sacrifices if you have a plan to make it up to yourself in the near future. if it's too inconvenient then don't cancel your own plans.Latest examples are I tried to rationalize not lifting or going rock climbing to meet with her. I didn't give into to it, but it's true that the urge is powerful.
now imagine if her boyfriend reacted by dumping her. she would have probably gone on a slutting/drinking/smoking binge out of guilt because she understands that's not the way to 'wake up' a relationship. the guy probably knew this in the back of his mind and didn't want her to leave, so he put up with it. he feared losing her.I spent some time with her this weekend. We talked about more stuff and she told me about the time they caught her kissing another guy during her relationship.
Her reasoning was that she did it because she didn't get enough attention and wanted to "wake up" her boyfriend to make things better.
Of course the whole story shows that she didn't intend to get caught, it just happened and wanted to blame her boyfriend for it.
she takes dangerous risks betting on black, even in conversation with you. what most men fail to do with women that are good in bed is to burn their black bets. remember to keep your casino running smoothly. if she continues betting on black you will continue burning her bets either indirectly(by removing your attention) or directly(by calling her out). the more important thing is to pay out her red bets. when you feel she's giving genuinely then shower her with affection or something she enjoys to reinforce that good behavior. this doesn't mean getting feminine. sex isn't really a favor since it's for her too. if she blows you, you can eat her out or play out some kink she enjoys. sex bets are no brainers.
inside or outside the bedroom always stay consistent, nip the bad behavior in the bud, reward the good behavior. keep regulating her to the appropriate table. never argue with her and always be the more calm one(you can be stern but still be the more calm one). you don't argue with her because that's rewarding a black bet. you are always calm because your principles are non-negotiable, you are simply exercising them. after all a casino never bends its rules and only makes special accommodations for the high rollers. in our analogy only consistent red betters should get to your high roller tables, where they're treated very well(as long as they continue to bet on red).