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Is She a Calamity?

EyeOnThePrize

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Latest examples are I tried to rationalize not lifting or going rock climbing to meet with her. I didn't give into to it, but it's true that the urge is powerful.
it's fine to make these sacrifices if you have a plan to make it up to yourself in the near future. if it's too inconvenient then don't cancel your own plans.

I spent some time with her this weekend. We talked about more stuff and she told me about the time they caught her kissing another guy during her relationship.
Her reasoning was that she did it because she didn't get enough attention and wanted to "wake up" her boyfriend to make things better.
Of course the whole story shows that she didn't intend to get caught, it just happened and wanted to blame her boyfriend for it.
now imagine if her boyfriend reacted by dumping her. she would have probably gone on a slutting/drinking/smoking binge out of guilt because she understands that's not the way to 'wake up' a relationship. the guy probably knew this in the back of his mind and didn't want her to leave, so he put up with it. he feared losing her.

she takes dangerous risks betting on black, even in conversation with you. what most men fail to do with women that are good in bed is to burn their black bets. remember to keep your casino running smoothly. if she continues betting on black you will continue burning her bets either indirectly(by removing your attention) or directly(by calling her out). the more important thing is to pay out her red bets. when you feel she's giving genuinely then shower her with affection or something she enjoys to reinforce that good behavior. this doesn't mean getting feminine. sex isn't really a favor since it's for her too. if she blows you, you can eat her out or play out some kink she enjoys. sex bets are no brainers.

inside or outside the bedroom always stay consistent, nip the bad behavior in the bud, reward the good behavior. keep regulating her to the appropriate table. never argue with her and always be the more calm one(you can be stern but still be the more calm one). you don't argue with her because that's rewarding a black bet. you are always calm because your principles are non-negotiable, you are simply exercising them. after all a casino never bends its rules and only makes special accommodations for the high rollers. in our analogy only consistent red betters should get to your high roller tables, where they're treated very well(as long as they continue to bet on red).
 

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@EyeOnThePrize
Your casino analogy is the coolest way of thinking I have read man!
If only I had this knowledge earlier...

Do you believe this can work even with broken women like this one?
 

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@EyeOnThePrize
Your way of thinking is cool as **** and it fits me perfectly! I am a gambling man after all. Thank you!!

I've been thinking about how she went through the phases of her life...
She spent all her party years in LTRs, right after her teen years. She cheated but didn't ride the proverbial CC (or that's what she made me believe).
She had a short break after the recent break up, so now she is in her epiphany phase?
Maybe looking to cash out on her SMV... She actually told me she always wanted to have kids at around age 28.
I believe she might want to secure herself and her future with having a kid, then go and catch up on the lost party years.
I make sure to flash the condom down the toilet from now on.

Also, after having some more wine than usual, she started badmouthing the mma dude, telling me he always tried to leave her and she almost killed herself for him to stay, but know she won, him wanting to get a new start and her rejecting it.

The more she tells me, the more broken she seems to be. I think I ll downgrade to booty call or NEXT her...
 

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Maybe the other guys had bad frame, couldn't handle her properly and weren't alpha enough?

Or maybe she rode a sick, weird CC and now had her epiphany, so she might want to build a healthy relationship?
Wishful thinking. History tends to repeat itself, and given her history, you already know how it's going to end. You just don't want to admit it to yourself.

I could tell she's damaged even without reading the bulk of your post. Your description of her (used to work at a bar, now a nurse, has tattoos) was enough. She fits precisely the type you want to avoid for anything more than a casual flick.
 

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@Bokanovsky I agree that history tends to repeat itself, I just believe people can change for the better.
Although this girl really has a sick and twisted way of thinking and looks like she hasn't changed.

I yet can't really understand why everyone says her work and especially the tattoos show what kind of woman someone is.
She studied to become a nurse while working simultaneously at the bar to make ends meet. How is this bad?
I am not talking only about her but for any woman.
I also understand the theory about self mutilation and tattoos, but couldn't it be someone just likes them?
 
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Women are followers, men are leaders. Weak men follow and damaged women try to lead.

When a woman indulges in tattoos, she's following, but she's following a masculine hobby. For centuries, women simply didn't have tattoos, only men.

And between her títs? That's attention seeking. Doesn't matter if it's small, all the more excuse to show it off.

What's missing from her life that she needs to seek attention this way?
 
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