Is sex sacred to women at any point?

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Sufficiently, Adequately, Compassionately, Competently, Comfortably, Calmly and Confidently express your feelings and stick up for yourself even with the consequences of them not hearing us or they may not agree with us still--we may have to then negotiate.

At least we are no longer passive aggressive or immature.


She is genuine. She has a roadmap for spiritual enlightenment that involves spiritual detachment!
 

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factchecking; being unreactive to emotions, not responsive; having selfbalance and having a relationship with yourself first are a few things that will unattract an unhealthy 'shady' narcissist or other dangerous personality in your life.

Good youtuber find!
 

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Why being "too good" to someone can get you fvcked up... It was because narcissists exploit this personality type, this is what they think they are supposed to be used for...

 

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Sufficiently, Adequately, Compassionately, Competently, Comfortably, Calmly and Confidently express your feelings and stick up for yourself even with the consequences of them not hearing us or they may not agree with us still--we may have to then negotiate.

At least we are no longer passive aggressive or immature.


She is genuine. She has a roadmap for spiritual enlightenment that involves spiritual detachment!
Listening to her is depressing as he11. But it makes it really clear.
 

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Why being "too good" to someone can get you fvcked up... It was because narcissists exploit this personality type, this is what they think they are supposed to be used for...

Man, she's personable. I like the metaphoe
 

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The subject is depressing though. Maybe that's how it's supposed to be.
down on phone battery and can't get the type in and still listen to her video.

Don't let this sap your energy. Give it another month or two before watching her again. Its ok, its heavy important stuff.

Hey! that big match is today!!!! Both Tyson and Jones look ready!
 

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down on phone battery and can't get the type in and still listen to her video.

Don't let this sap your energy. Give it another month or two before watching her again. Its ok, its heavy important stuff.

Hey! that big match is today!!!! Both Tyson and Jones look ready!
It makes the clarity of the treachery of a narc well defined and crystal clear. Curious about this fight.
 

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Advice from the old lady:

It depends. Some women pull sex and love apart forever and just enjoy it as pleasure or obligation as others have mentioned. Others keep sex and love entwined (I have) and retain the ability to bond, but I'd say that it gets more rare in upper age groups to find that amongst women who aren't already partnered.

Men like to bond as well, let's not fool ourselves. But some men also lose the ability to bond once they have been so promiscuous as to become addicted to the dopamine hit of the conquest. That's a tough give up.
 

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It depends. Some women pull sex and love apart forever and just enjoy it as pleasure or obligation as others have mentioned. Others keep sex and love entwined (I have) and retain the ability to bond, but I'd say that it gets more rare in upper age groups to find that amongst women who aren't already partnered.

Men like to bond as well, let's not fool ourselves. But some men also lose the ability to bond once they have been so promiscuous as to become addicted to the dopamine hit of the conquest. That's a tough give up.
More lifetime sex partners = reduced potential for bonding. It happens in both sexes, but I believe that effect is more pronounced in women.
 

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never heard this one before . I think that is an exaggeration . From what I Know the median count for sex partners is 9 global , which means that 50% had less than 9 partners and more 50% more than 9 . The big countries were feminism is more powerful the median is at 10- 11 .

the funny thing is that usually the average and ugly ones have a higher notch on average when compared to the high value women

women have a lower notch count in all the studies by half :)

100 partners is top
Not sure where you have been. Girls are skiing down cawk mountain. Are running through dudes. Not considering marriage nor settling down until way after DANGER ZONE. I wanted LOTS OF CHILDREN once upon a time prior to learning game and pickup. Prior to wanting to date more, hookup, the vet for a wife as well as children. I don't anymore. Its not real life nor are the women today of worthy caliber.

I would love to see a source. At best its dated. Its not close to the experience I seen in game or pickup nor anything close to what I have seen in high school or college. The vast majority didn't get to softmore year with double those digits. Many had kills three times that long before graduation. College was open season. I remember one girl at 19 and she racked up a 100 kills in a school year.

There is no such thing as high value women. She is a woman. Her **** stinks. Dudes would be in for a surprise if they vet women based on the value of her fertility or lack thereof.

Mate, the notion of you deeming high value women is that idealism I warned you about. 80% of divorce rape is initiated by women men had once deemed like you. Its male ego that gets him wrecked in stupid situations. Mystery is a legend and OG but that same idealism let him to a weeping embarrassing mess for a party girl slut likely full of STDs and abortions. Modern women are 100x worse than her in the early 2000s.
 

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Not sure where you have been. Girls are skiing down cawk mountain. Are running through dudes. Not considering marriage nor settling down until way after DANGER ZONE. I wanted LOTS OF CHILDREN once upon a time prior to learning game and pickup. Prior to wanting to date more, hookup, the vet for a wife as well as children. I don't anymore. Its not real life nor are the women today of worthy caliber.

I would love to see a source. At best its dated. Its not close to the experience I seen in game or pickup nor anything close to what I have seen in high school or college. The vast majority didn't get to softmore year with double those digits. Many had kills three times that long before graduation. College was open season. I remember one girl at 19 and she racked up a 100 kills in a school year.

There is no such thing as high value women. She is a woman. Her **** stinks. Dudes would be in for a surprise if they vet women based on the value of her fertility or lack thereof.

Mate, the notion of you deeming high value women is that idealism I warned you about. 80% of divorce rape is initiated by women men had once deemed like you. Its male ego that gets him wrecked in stupid situations. Mystery is a legend and OG but that same idealism let him to a weeping embarrassing mess for a party girl slut likely full of STDs and abortions. Modern women are 100x worse than her in the early 2000s.
i agree with you about the quality of most girls , but in the same time I am quite sure that there are still girls that are high value .

I am quite sure that most girls that you are talking about from experience are quite average towards ugly side of spectrum who are using sex as a tool of validation .

I noticed this too also , that lower value women have only one tool to keep dudes around that is sex , without it they would be just ignored by men
 

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Girls are skiing down cawk mountain.
yep i was speaking to a girl the other day and she literally let it slip she had dated 3 guys in about 10 weeks(all of which had been to her house), i was gobsmacked

they are literally taking a guy per cycle
 

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yep i was speaking to a girl the other day and she literally let it slip she had dated 3 guys in about 10 weeks(all of which had been to her house), i was gobsmacked

they are literally taking a guy per cycle
Every 30 days. They "try" one. Get tired of each other's narcissistic behavior and move onto the next. Each time the female side thinks its going to be something good or trade up.
 

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I do know one thing and that’s whenever you fck a woman she start chasing you . I think we get the point how important most of the times is sex for them.
 

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So Austria Dik ( a redpill YouTube) claims that sex holds very little significance to a women. Giving her body away is equal to an elbow massage or hand shake. I would disagree. I would say that most women start off viewing sex as special. What happens is after that first guy who Alpha widows them, then they disconnect love from sex. This is the definition of a whure. A women who has completely disconnected love from sex.

I have my viewpoint is because I grew up in an era where the older guys told me that after sex you have the girls heart.
Sex is sacred for a virgin because its the unknown but once she hops on another **** its starts to desensitize her.

But I think some women value their pvssy more than their mouths for others its the inverse.

I think for a beta bux guy they'll give up their pvssy but no BJs but for Chad or Tyronne they'll blow him to show they are ready to get down but "are not that type of girl to give pvssy up so easily"

There is study that shows women who marry the only they they fvcked or are virgins at marriage have a 90% success rate and then it drops to 40-50%. This might connect to that.
 

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Sex is sacred for a virgin because its the unknown but once she hops on another **** its starts to desensitize her.

But I think some women value their pvssy more than their mouths for others its the inverse.

I think for a beta bux guy they'll give up their pvssy but no BJs but for Chad or Tyronne they'll blow him to show they are ready to get down but "are not that type of girl to give pvssy up so easily"

There is study that shows women who marry the only they they fvcked or are virgins at marriage have a 90% success rate and then it drops to 40-50%. This might connect to that.
I read somewhere that everytime a woman opens her leg for a man, she gives him her "soul".
The more guys she gets with,the more she divides her soul and that means that one man can't own her anymore.
 
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