Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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J S Az

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is it safe to have a condom on when hard, go limp, keep the condom on, get hard again, and then have sex?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just put a new one on your cheap ass :p

Would I do it? No, that's just kinda weird. I'd imagine there might be some health issues with it. Also, ewww, blowing your load twice in one. No thanks
 

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After I blow my load, I just rewash my condom for another use. Usually when there's a tear in the condom, I fix it by putting duct tape on it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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He isn't ejaculating into the rubber then using it again.....he's asking if it's ok to get hard,become flaccid,THEN have sex.

Yes.

Would still be best to put another on tho.

Hellboy.....details mate,details...is there a link you can post?

EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
 

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Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
Yep! Or STD clinics. And there are other places too. Most towns/cities have non-profit organisations where you can pick this sort of thing up.
 

everywomanshero

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Depends

You two are in Europe. Most of the United States is very sexually repressed compared to Europe, Canada, Argentina and other countries I've visited. It is a little less true in big cities, especially in "Blue" states. Of course, there are some very religious small communities in Europe, too.
There are many US communities where you won't even see condoms on display. You have to ask for them because the community is outraged by seeing condoms in the open. Pretty funny after a week on Netherland's half-topless sanddunes :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybnoob

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If you want free condoms just go to a family planning centre/ gp/ school office etc. Im my uni they constantly handing out free rubbers and its durex to, not the cheap stuff.
 

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Dude...they put directions on the condoms for a reason. Read them.

The tension of the condom against your wang is what keeps the seal. If you go limp-**** while in one, cvm can leak out around the edges.

Dude, they're like $3 for a three-pack around here...they're in the grocery store a foot away from the toothbrushes. And they even have self-checkouts if you're embarassed to hand them to the cute girl working the register.

Is there anywhere, aside from those dispensers in sleazy bathrooms, where you even CAN buy condoms one-at-a-time any more?? :confused:
 

DrMetallica

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Actually at my university they sell 1 condom for .94 cents I believe in a pastic-case cardboard-backed. It's pretty sleezy 'cause it doesn't have a brandname.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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