"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is it safe to have a condom on when hard, go limp, keep the condom on, get hard again, and then have sex?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just put a new one on your cheap ass :p

Would I do it? No, that's just kinda weird. I'd imagine there might be some health issues with it. Also, ewww, blowing your load twice in one. No thanks
 

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After I blow my load, I just rewash my condom for another use. Usually when there's a tear in the condom, I fix it by putting duct tape on it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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He isn't ejaculating into the rubber then using it again.....he's asking if it's ok to get hard,become flaccid,THEN have sex.

Yes.

Would still be best to put another on tho.

Hellboy.....details mate,details...is there a link you can post?

EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
 

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Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
Yep! Or STD clinics. And there are other places too. Most towns/cities have non-profit organisations where you can pick this sort of thing up.
 

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Depends

You two are in Europe. Most of the United States is very sexually repressed compared to Europe, Canada, Argentina and other countries I've visited. It is a little less true in big cities, especially in "Blue" states. Of course, there are some very religious small communities in Europe, too.
There are many US communities where you won't even see condoms on display. You have to ask for them because the community is outraged by seeing condoms in the open. Pretty funny after a week on Netherland's half-topless sanddunes :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybnoob

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If you want free condoms just go to a family planning centre/ gp/ school office etc. Im my uni they constantly handing out free rubbers and its durex to, not the cheap stuff.
 

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Dude...they put directions on the condoms for a reason. Read them.

The tension of the condom against your wang is what keeps the seal. If you go limp-**** while in one, cvm can leak out around the edges.

Dude, they're like $3 for a three-pack around here...they're in the grocery store a foot away from the toothbrushes. And they even have self-checkouts if you're embarassed to hand them to the cute girl working the register.

Is there anywhere, aside from those dispensers in sleazy bathrooms, where you even CAN buy condoms one-at-a-time any more?? :confused:
 

DrMetallica

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Actually at my university they sell 1 condom for .94 cents I believe in a pastic-case cardboard-backed. It's pretty sleezy 'cause it doesn't have a brandname.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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