"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is safe to.... with condom

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is it safe to have a condom on when hard, go limp, keep the condom on, get hard again, and then have sex?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just put a new one on your cheap ass :p

Would I do it? No, that's just kinda weird. I'd imagine there might be some health issues with it. Also, ewww, blowing your load twice in one. No thanks
 

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After I blow my load, I just rewash my condom for another use. Usually when there's a tear in the condom, I fix it by putting duct tape on it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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He isn't ejaculating into the rubber then using it again.....he's asking if it's ok to get hard,become flaccid,THEN have sex.

Yes.

Would still be best to put another on tho.

Hellboy.....details mate,details...is there a link you can post?

EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
 

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Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
EDIT:Nevermind...you talking bout the family planning clinic right?
Yep! Or STD clinics. And there are other places too. Most towns/cities have non-profit organisations where you can pick this sort of thing up.
 

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Depends

You two are in Europe. Most of the United States is very sexually repressed compared to Europe, Canada, Argentina and other countries I've visited. It is a little less true in big cities, especially in "Blue" states. Of course, there are some very religious small communities in Europe, too.
There are many US communities where you won't even see condoms on display. You have to ask for them because the community is outraged by seeing condoms in the open. Pretty funny after a week on Netherland's half-topless sanddunes :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you want free condoms just go to a family planning centre/ gp/ school office etc. Im my uni they constantly handing out free rubbers and its durex to, not the cheap stuff.
 

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Dude...they put directions on the condoms for a reason. Read them.

The tension of the condom against your wang is what keeps the seal. If you go limp-**** while in one, cvm can leak out around the edges.

Dude, they're like $3 for a three-pack around here...they're in the grocery store a foot away from the toothbrushes. And they even have self-checkouts if you're embarassed to hand them to the cute girl working the register.

Is there anywhere, aside from those dispensers in sleazy bathrooms, where you even CAN buy condoms one-at-a-time any more?? :confused:
 

DrMetallica

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Actually at my university they sell 1 condom for .94 cents I believe in a pastic-case cardboard-backed. It's pretty sleezy 'cause it doesn't have a brandname.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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