I don't know what it is, I can number close girls, I can interest, but I can't find a date to the freaking prom. Either the girl has a date already or she gives me some BS excuse. The whole reason I'm starting to think the asking girls on a date thing is BS is because if you don't know the girl, she's PROBABLY going to make an excuse or give you a no, no matter how confident you go up there. At this point I'm really going with the mindset "F*ck prom" since I heard it might be mandatory to go as a couple(But I think you CAN go single, but I'm not sure). Reason why I'm saying f*ck prom is because it's too hard to find a freaking date. So is finding a date to prom really worth it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is Prom really worth the trouble of finding a date?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
Really though, the whole prom situation is BS though. I'm thinking of just skipping it and going to the after prom though. So yeah, I'm probably just not going to go through the whole prom thing, but I'll go to after prom and just talk to girls there.ARrocket said:Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LostAndConfused
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I call BS on that one, prom is lame as hell. The guys sit there while girls take thousands of pictures. After parties would be fun though.Bling said:Go by yourself then. Don't miss your prom.
Your always making the same excuse ElStud. GET TO KNOW SOME GIRLS. Even if you are just a friend, get to know girls. Make friends with girls. It will help your game dramatically as well.
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?