I don't know what it is, I can number close girls, I can interest, but I can't find a date to the freaking prom. Either the girl has a date already or she gives me some BS excuse. The whole reason I'm starting to think the asking girls on a date thing is BS is because if you don't know the girl, she's PROBABLY going to make an excuse or give you a no, no matter how confident you go up there. At this point I'm really going with the mindset "F*ck prom" since I heard it might be mandatory to go as a couple(But I think you CAN go single, but I'm not sure). Reason why I'm saying f*ck prom is because it's too hard to find a freaking date. So is finding a date to prom really worth it?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is Prom really worth the trouble of finding a date?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
Really though, the whole prom situation is BS though. I'm thinking of just skipping it and going to the after prom though. So yeah, I'm probably just not going to go through the whole prom thing, but I'll go to after prom and just talk to girls there.ARrocket said:Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LostAndConfused
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I call BS on that one, prom is lame as hell. The guys sit there while girls take thousands of pictures. After parties would be fun though.Bling said:Go by yourself then. Don't miss your prom.
Your always making the same excuse ElStud. GET TO KNOW SOME GIRLS. Even if you are just a friend, get to know girls. Make friends with girls. It will help your game dramatically as well.
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?