I don't know what it is, I can number close girls, I can interest, but I can't find a date to the freaking prom. Either the girl has a date already or she gives me some BS excuse. The whole reason I'm starting to think the asking girls on a date thing is BS is because if you don't know the girl, she's PROBABLY going to make an excuse or give you a no, no matter how confident you go up there. At this point I'm really going with the mindset "F*ck prom" since I heard it might be mandatory to go as a couple(But I think you CAN go single, but I'm not sure). Reason why I'm saying f*ck prom is because it's too hard to find a freaking date. So is finding a date to prom really worth it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is Prom really worth the trouble of finding a date?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
Really though, the whole prom situation is BS though. I'm thinking of just skipping it and going to the after prom though. So yeah, I'm probably just not going to go through the whole prom thing, but I'll go to after prom and just talk to girls there.ARrocket said:Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LostAndConfused
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I call BS on that one, prom is lame as hell. The guys sit there while girls take thousands of pictures. After parties would be fun though.Bling said:Go by yourself then. Don't miss your prom.
Your always making the same excuse ElStud. GET TO KNOW SOME GIRLS. Even if you are just a friend, get to know girls. Make friends with girls. It will help your game dramatically as well.
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?