I don't know what it is, I can number close girls, I can interest, but I can't find a date to the freaking prom. Either the girl has a date already or she gives me some BS excuse. The whole reason I'm starting to think the asking girls on a date thing is BS is because if you don't know the girl, she's PROBABLY going to make an excuse or give you a no, no matter how confident you go up there. At this point I'm really going with the mindset "F*ck prom" since I heard it might be mandatory to go as a couple(But I think you CAN go single, but I'm not sure). Reason why I'm saying f*ck prom is because it's too hard to find a freaking date. So is finding a date to prom really worth it?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is Prom really worth the trouble of finding a date?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
Really though, the whole prom situation is BS though. I'm thinking of just skipping it and going to the after prom though. So yeah, I'm probably just not going to go through the whole prom thing, but I'll go to after prom and just talk to girls there.ARrocket said:Prom sucks. We all know that. But, you have to suck it up and go. Find a date El Stud, it won't kill you. Take a female friend if you must.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LostAndConfused
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I call BS on that one, prom is lame as hell. The guys sit there while girls take thousands of pictures. After parties would be fun though.Bling said:Go by yourself then. Don't miss your prom.
Your always making the same excuse ElStud. GET TO KNOW SOME GIRLS. Even if you are just a friend, get to know girls. Make friends with girls. It will help your game dramatically as well.
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?
Can you really expect a girl to go to prom with a guy she doesn't know?