"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is Personality Subjective???

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This is a discussion I'm carrying on from another post. Skip said that guys need looks,and I said not necessarily. Now that I think about it he may be right I don't know. From my experience I've noticed girls liking me just because I look decent. They don't care that i'm a shy guy who can sometimes be an a$$hole,so they go on looks. Then later on they find out who you really are and drift away. That's been my experience with being who I am. I then see guys who know how to talk get girls that I like and yes I get upset. To make matters worse the girls won't even look at me, and I'm usually better looking.

I forgot my point.....Oh yeah, looks will only get you so far,personality will only get you so far. I agree with skip that if you don't look to great you better have a decent body if you have no personality you better damn well work on it. Trust me on this. Well, I'm tired worked all night good day don juans
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I believe that looks are a reflection of your personality. I got to give it to him, have you seen Jariel's before and after pics? He went from an average fat kid, to those gq-look alikes.

Anyways, women don't think like men. Your personality, habits, will reflect in all aspects in your life (including looks) and, conciously or not, bytches will notice.
 
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no i have never seen them but would like to but just because someone looks good doesn't mean they will be cool
 
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Chosen1 said:
personality will only get you so far.
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There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
 
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Yeah DD that's actually true that's why I say it's subjective.

But I'm sure we will all get into the position where one person will say you don't have a personality or it sucks, what's that mean? You never made em laugh or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deep Dish said:
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
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:crackup:

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Was that a joke or a very insightful comment?
 
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If he actually meant there is no such thing he's joking.

If he meant it all depends on the person and how they see you then he's right.
 
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