"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is Personality Subjective???

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This is a discussion I'm carrying on from another post. Skip said that guys need looks,and I said not necessarily. Now that I think about it he may be right I don't know. From my experience I've noticed girls liking me just because I look decent. They don't care that i'm a shy guy who can sometimes be an a$$hole,so they go on looks. Then later on they find out who you really are and drift away. That's been my experience with being who I am. I then see guys who know how to talk get girls that I like and yes I get upset. To make matters worse the girls won't even look at me, and I'm usually better looking.

I forgot my point.....Oh yeah, looks will only get you so far,personality will only get you so far. I agree with skip that if you don't look to great you better have a decent body if you have no personality you better damn well work on it. Trust me on this. Well, I'm tired worked all night good day don juans
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I believe that looks are a reflection of your personality. I got to give it to him, have you seen Jariel's before and after pics? He went from an average fat kid, to those gq-look alikes.

Anyways, women don't think like men. Your personality, habits, will reflect in all aspects in your life (including looks) and, conciously or not, bytches will notice.
 
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no i have never seen them but would like to but just because someone looks good doesn't mean they will be cool
 
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Chosen1 said:
personality will only get you so far.
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There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
 
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Yeah DD that's actually true that's why I say it's subjective.

But I'm sure we will all get into the position where one person will say you don't have a personality or it sucks, what's that mean? You never made em laugh or what?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Deep Dish said:
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
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:crackup:

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Was that a joke or a very insightful comment?
 
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If he actually meant there is no such thing he's joking.

If he meant it all depends on the person and how they see you then he's right.
 
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