Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is Personality Subjective???

Chosen1

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This is a discussion I'm carrying on from another post. Skip said that guys need looks,and I said not necessarily. Now that I think about it he may be right I don't know. From my experience I've noticed girls liking me just because I look decent. They don't care that i'm a shy guy who can sometimes be an a$$hole,so they go on looks. Then later on they find out who you really are and drift away. That's been my experience with being who I am. I then see guys who know how to talk get girls that I like and yes I get upset. To make matters worse the girls won't even look at me, and I'm usually better looking.

I forgot my point.....Oh yeah, looks will only get you so far,personality will only get you so far. I agree with skip that if you don't look to great you better have a decent body if you have no personality you better damn well work on it. Trust me on this. Well, I'm tired worked all night good day don juans
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I believe that looks are a reflection of your personality. I got to give it to him, have you seen Jariel's before and after pics? He went from an average fat kid, to those gq-look alikes.

Anyways, women don't think like men. Your personality, habits, will reflect in all aspects in your life (including looks) and, conciously or not, bytches will notice.
 

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no i have never seen them but would like to but just because someone looks good doesn't mean they will be cool
 

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Chosen1 said:
personality will only get you so far.
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
 

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Yeah DD that's actually true that's why I say it's subjective.

But I'm sure we will all get into the position where one person will say you don't have a personality or it sucks, what's that mean? You never made em laugh or what?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Deep Dish said:
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
:crackup:

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Was that a joke or a very insightful comment?
 

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If he actually meant there is no such thing he's joking.

If he meant it all depends on the person and how they see you then he's right.
 
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