"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is Personality Subjective???

Chosen1

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This is a discussion I'm carrying on from another post. Skip said that guys need looks,and I said not necessarily. Now that I think about it he may be right I don't know. From my experience I've noticed girls liking me just because I look decent. They don't care that i'm a shy guy who can sometimes be an a$$hole,so they go on looks. Then later on they find out who you really are and drift away. That's been my experience with being who I am. I then see guys who know how to talk get girls that I like and yes I get upset. To make matters worse the girls won't even look at me, and I'm usually better looking.

I forgot my point.....Oh yeah, looks will only get you so far,personality will only get you so far. I agree with skip that if you don't look to great you better have a decent body if you have no personality you better damn well work on it. Trust me on this. Well, I'm tired worked all night good day don juans
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I believe that looks are a reflection of your personality. I got to give it to him, have you seen Jariel's before and after pics? He went from an average fat kid, to those gq-look alikes.

Anyways, women don't think like men. Your personality, habits, will reflect in all aspects in your life (including looks) and, conciously or not, bytches will notice.
 

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no i have never seen them but would like to but just because someone looks good doesn't mean they will be cool
 

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Chosen1 said:
personality will only get you so far.
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
 

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Yeah DD that's actually true that's why I say it's subjective.

But I'm sure we will all get into the position where one person will say you don't have a personality or it sucks, what's that mean? You never made em laugh or what?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deep Dish said:
There is really no such thing as personality. It's all an illusion.
:crackup:

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Was that a joke or a very insightful comment?
 

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If he actually meant there is no such thing he's joking.

If he meant it all depends on the person and how they see you then he's right.
 
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