"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

MsAviator

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I think these are the signs, or maybe I am reading too much into it. He is not married and does not have any children:
re are some signs:
1. He was helping the students one by one. It wasn't until he got to me that he started stuttering and fumbling over his words. However with the other students his speech was confident and fluent.
2. After class when I talked to my friend, the professor cut into the conversation to join us, despite many other people in the class talking.
3. He stares into my eyes a lot. I kept a tally from how many times he would stare at me for at least 4 seconds. The results were shocking; 93 times in a 2 hour period.
3. When I asked him a question when we were alone, he stood very close to me. And when I moved closer, nearly touching, he did not move away. He was awkward and stumbled over his words and we tried to look at each other in that close proximity.
4. I was in class talking to my friend, he tuned in immediately again and added to the conversation while he never did this to others.

Thank you for reading :)
By the way I am NOT a troll. No rude comments please. I came here to seek ADVISE and NOT rude assumptions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lmao...trolls get better and better
 

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I'm a pilot.
 

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Would you consider yourself good looking? If so, there is a greater chance of attraction.
 

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Check out my profile picture.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MsAviator said:
Check out my profile picture.
Ok, are you interested? Give him a hint then. Or are you just seeking validation that you are pretty and an ego boost among your friends?
 

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Thank you so much of giving me replies other than ASSumptions that I'm a troll. Yes I do like him. We are both pilots and in flight school, and to avoid the breach of an academic misconduct I am looking to date him after the course ends. By the way, I am new with flirting. Any tips on how to flirt with a guy without being too overt/strong? Is 93 times a lot of eye contact in a two hour period where I sat in the far corner? I asked the girls in the class and they complained that he never looked them in the eye once.
 

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Yep, he digs you. It seems obvious, clear signals. If you are interested, try to spend more 1 on 1 time with him, ask him out. Good luck.
 

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Should I ask him to come fly with me? He's got like 9000 hours in his logbook while I've only got 60 lol .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
 

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MsAviator said:
Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
Sometimes we do. It's like when you see a roadkill and for some strange reason can't take your eyes away from it. Call it morbid fascination.
 

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MsAviator said:
Check out my profile picture.

Oh I see you are a woman. I thought you were a guy and your professor had same sex tendencies towards you. Teachers falling for pupils is common especially in adult settings. But he'll largely keep his feeling (if that is the case) private because its not right. You should not push boundaries either. Come a few months you would have moved on and won't be having classes with professor. Find a guy who is not a teacher to keep you company.

But don't you think this is an inappropriate place to ask such advice? This forum is largely for guys who have problems meeting women, luckily you don't have that problem.
 

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MsAviator said:
Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
That is a totally out of order way of describing people.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mangotot said:
That is a totally out of order way of describing people.
No its dead on.

Honestly OP, why are you even asking questions you already know the answer to?
 

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Lol, no. I am a woman, and I wanted some advice from men. I want to ask, though, how do I flirt with him and initiate contact after class ends? It is ending pretty soon.
 

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Ask him out.

Hoooooooooooooooooooooooly fvckin sh!t a woman asking for advice!!!!!!!!!!!

The advice that most men are given on this website is basically to ask a woman out in order to get a definite answer and the same will apply to you.

He might be attracted to you but you won't truly know unless you ask him out or unless he asks you out after the course ends. From the sounds of it he might like you a little bit but doesn't want to get in trouble for misconduct. Technically we don't know unless you ask him out point-blank.

Also did you check for a wedding ring!!!? or has he brought up his GF in a conversation!?!?! :flowers:

Originally posted by:- MsAviator

Lol, no. I am a woman, and I wanted some advice from men. I want to ask, though, how do I flirt with him and initiate contact after class ends? It is ending pretty soon.
The best way you can flirt with him is to blow his head up. Compliment him on some accessory or the clothes he is wearing or how a color suits him. Laugh at all of his jokes and try to touch him a little bit here and there just to let him know you feel comfortable around him. Don't email him or add him on your facebook. Keep it strictly face to face.
 

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are you guys sure this isnt just skinnguy/the indian race troll on another name again
 

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foreverAFC said:
are you guys sure this isnt just skinnguy/the indian race troll on another name again
:crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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