"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

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I think these are the signs, or maybe I am reading too much into it. He is not married and does not have any children:
re are some signs:
1. He was helping the students one by one. It wasn't until he got to me that he started stuttering and fumbling over his words. However with the other students his speech was confident and fluent.
2. After class when I talked to my friend, the professor cut into the conversation to join us, despite many other people in the class talking.
3. He stares into my eyes a lot. I kept a tally from how many times he would stare at me for at least 4 seconds. The results were shocking; 93 times in a 2 hour period.
3. When I asked him a question when we were alone, he stood very close to me. And when I moved closer, nearly touching, he did not move away. He was awkward and stumbled over his words and we tried to look at each other in that close proximity.
4. I was in class talking to my friend, he tuned in immediately again and added to the conversation while he never did this to others.

Thank you for reading :)
By the way I am NOT a troll. No rude comments please. I came here to seek ADVISE and NOT rude assumptions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lmao...trolls get better and better
 

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I'm a pilot.
 

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Would you consider yourself good looking? If so, there is a greater chance of attraction.
 

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Check out my profile picture.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MsAviator said:
Check out my profile picture.
Ok, are you interested? Give him a hint then. Or are you just seeking validation that you are pretty and an ego boost among your friends?
 

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Thank you so much of giving me replies other than ASSumptions that I'm a troll. Yes I do like him. We are both pilots and in flight school, and to avoid the breach of an academic misconduct I am looking to date him after the course ends. By the way, I am new with flirting. Any tips on how to flirt with a guy without being too overt/strong? Is 93 times a lot of eye contact in a two hour period where I sat in the far corner? I asked the girls in the class and they complained that he never looked them in the eye once.
 

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Yep, he digs you. It seems obvious, clear signals. If you are interested, try to spend more 1 on 1 time with him, ask him out. Good luck.
 

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Should I ask him to come fly with me? He's got like 9000 hours in his logbook while I've only got 60 lol .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
 

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MsAviator said:
Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
Sometimes we do. It's like when you see a roadkill and for some strange reason can't take your eyes away from it. Call it morbid fascination.
 

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MsAviator said:
Check out my profile picture.

Oh I see you are a woman. I thought you were a guy and your professor had same sex tendencies towards you. Teachers falling for pupils is common especially in adult settings. But he'll largely keep his feeling (if that is the case) private because its not right. You should not push boundaries either. Come a few months you would have moved on and won't be having classes with professor. Find a guy who is not a teacher to keep you company.

But don't you think this is an inappropriate place to ask such advice? This forum is largely for guys who have problems meeting women, luckily you don't have that problem.
 

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MsAviator said:
Guys, you don't look at unattractive whales for more than 90 times, right?
That is a totally out of order way of describing people.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mangotot said:
That is a totally out of order way of describing people.
No its dead on.

Honestly OP, why are you even asking questions you already know the answer to?
 

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Lol, no. I am a woman, and I wanted some advice from men. I want to ask, though, how do I flirt with him and initiate contact after class ends? It is ending pretty soon.
 

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Ask him out.

Hoooooooooooooooooooooooly fvckin sh!t a woman asking for advice!!!!!!!!!!!

The advice that most men are given on this website is basically to ask a woman out in order to get a definite answer and the same will apply to you.

He might be attracted to you but you won't truly know unless you ask him out or unless he asks you out after the course ends. From the sounds of it he might like you a little bit but doesn't want to get in trouble for misconduct. Technically we don't know unless you ask him out point-blank.

Also did you check for a wedding ring!!!? or has he brought up his GF in a conversation!?!?! :flowers:

Originally posted by:- MsAviator

Lol, no. I am a woman, and I wanted some advice from men. I want to ask, though, how do I flirt with him and initiate contact after class ends? It is ending pretty soon.
The best way you can flirt with him is to blow his head up. Compliment him on some accessory or the clothes he is wearing or how a color suits him. Laugh at all of his jokes and try to touch him a little bit here and there just to let him know you feel comfortable around him. Don't email him or add him on your facebook. Keep it strictly face to face.
 

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are you guys sure this isnt just skinnguy/the indian race troll on another name again
 

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foreverAFC said:
are you guys sure this isnt just skinnguy/the indian race troll on another name again
:crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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