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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Is my masseuse hitting on me or trying to get an extra tip?

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TBH I really don't care if she is or not, but I want this site's opinion because why not lol. In addition, I swear this is a legit establishment and not a Jack Shack lol. She is also latina lol. I tried out this new place and this woman was pretty talkative from the get-go. She kept complimenting my body, called me hot, talking in my ear as she laid on my back, went above and beyond on my buttocks area and also smacked it a couple of times (most masseuses don't do this), kept obviously grabbing junk when she was in my thigh area (most masseuses don't do this), yes I got a lot of boners during it so she felt them, and gave me a nickname too. I didn't ask for her number because I have a GF lol and I fvcked one of my masseuses before and it turned out to be a bad idea lol.

The massage was great, but should I go back to this establishment or not?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So you're back to latinas again huh? You turned down a latina Target cashier, so. Surprised you choose a latina masseuse.
 
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Seriously? This comes off as a humblebrag dawg. Of course you’d be out of your mind not to go back…
 
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The only places I go for a message are well-known for the client to have a happy ending, so I can't grok the idea of getting a message without it (yes, this is NOT in the USA :rolleyes: ). You could ask her if she does "milking" message.
 
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CornbreadFed said:
TBH I really don't care if she is or not, but I want this site's opinion because why not lol. In addition, I swear this is a legit establishment and not a Jack Shack lol. She is also latina lol. I tried out this new place and this woman was pretty talkative from the get-go. She kept complimenting my body, called me hot, talking in my ear as she laid on my back, went above and beyond on my buttocks area and also smacked it a couple of times (most masseuses don't do this), kept obviously grabbing junk when she was in my thigh area (most masseuses don't do this), yes I got a lot of boners during it so she felt them, and gave me a nickname too. I didn't ask for her number because I have a GF lol and I fvcked one of my masseuses before and it turned out to be a bad idea lol.

The massage was great, but should I go back to this establishment or not?
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When a chick uses the term “hot,” she is being 100% honest. The attraction is solid.

When a stripper or other pro is buttering up an ugly guy, she’ll say “handsome” lol.
 
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MatureDJ said:
The only places I go for a message are well-known for the client to have a happy ending, so I can't grok the idea of getting a message without it (yes, this is NOT in the USA :rolleyes: ). You could ask her if she does "milking" message.
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Those are everywhere in my city. That’s how I know this place is legit and not a Jack shack.
 
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Chowda said:
So how are things between you and your GF?

Nothing wrong with having fun, but it’s a slippery slope man. You do what you feel is best, though I would give you caution on going down this path. Maybe take a moment to ask yourself why you are visiting one of these when you’re in a relationship.

I don’t think you can look at your GF the same if you proceed with the full-service. Just a word of caution, brother
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This is not a full-service establishment. If I wanted that, I would go somewhere else.
 
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Phucking touch her back Corn. This isn't hard to figure out. Play with her boobs if she grabs your junk. Grab her ass if she smacks yours. If she likes it, she's hitting on you, if she gives you sh1t she's working for the tip.

Basic sh1t here.
 
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Either cheat on her or don't. But let's be real that's the only reason you are contemplating going back.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You don't know what to do or how to interpret this correctly?
With your level of expertise I don't understand why.

How many women have you met that are this forward that didn't want money? ;-).

Ask her where she used to dance at or what her name is on Seeking Arrangements.
 
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Well we all know OP is going to get another massage from this woman...

I've gotten plenty of massages in my day. Nothing more than some incidental grazing of the boys at a truly legit spot. Descriptions of her laying on your back, smacking your a$$, grabbing the d1ck... but sure this one is totally legit. Any masseuse who has grabbed my johnson at least had the decency to finish the job...
 
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Captain Redbeard said:
Well we all know OP is going to get another massage from this woman...

I've gotten plenty of massages in my day. Nothing more than some incidental grazing of the boys at a truly legit spot. Descriptions of her laying on your back, smacking your a$$, grabbing the d1ck... but sure this one is totally legit. Any masseuse who has grabbed my johnson at least had the decency to finish the job...
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I prefer the teasing lol
 
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I'm going to go again lol, the massage was decent and I she isn't scared to dig deep. I just wanted sosuave's thoughts on this lol.
 
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