"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Is it worth it? LDR

O

Onion

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2014
Messages
73
Reaction score
10
I know the rule of thumb when it comes to long distance relationships, especially the view of those DJs on this board from whom i've learned a lot.

I met this girl online on one of those social sites. She sounds very much in to me, at least from her intial responses. Very high class, HB8, does counseling and psychotherapy sh!t.

I am a sucesfull guy myself, run my own business and have recources to pursue my goals including relationships.

Question is have any of you pusued sucessful relationship from a distace? i am talking about countries not states.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Dhoulmagus

Dhoulmagus

Banned
Joined
Sep 11, 2013
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
169
I'm in one, but only because it's temporary and 4 hours apart. If you live in the US and she lives in another country than **** no unless you live in Seattle while she lives in Vancouver or something.
 
Y

Yewki

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2013
Messages
1,504
Reaction score
589
She's in a different country? What's the point in putting forth effort with this woman if there's little to no chance for sex? Since you've already wasted time with her, escalate things immediately and see if she'll visit for a bang. If she can't, forget about her. If she can, bang her... then forget about her.
 
L

LMFAO

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 22, 2012
Messages
758
Reaction score
41
Are you going to be in the same place anytime soon? If not forget it.
 
Y

Yorkex

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 8, 2014
Messages
203
Reaction score
21
Location
New York
Well one of my plates was in a LDR ...I ****ed her & then her "boyfriend provided the emotional support for her.
One of the things I will NEVER consider , expecially in this generation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

O

Onion

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2014
Messages
73
Reaction score
10
Hilarious Yorkex! I am traveling to Dallas sometime next month for the first date. Looking forward to it. Staying for the weekend at her place, I am sure there will be a chance for a good bang, but what follows after that is up for debate. I have been on LDR with BPD EX and I don't need to say much how that turned out.

I am just curious if it's even worth the trip. But mind you I've never been to Dallas before so maybe worth a visit :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top