"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it worth it? LDR

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I know the rule of thumb when it comes to long distance relationships, especially the view of those DJs on this board from whom i've learned a lot.

I met this girl online on one of those social sites. She sounds very much in to me, at least from her intial responses. Very high class, HB8, does counseling and psychotherapy sh!t.

I am a sucesfull guy myself, run my own business and have recources to pursue my goals including relationships.

Question is have any of you pusued sucessful relationship from a distace? i am talking about countries not states.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in one, but only because it's temporary and 4 hours apart. If you live in the US and she lives in another country than **** no unless you live in Seattle while she lives in Vancouver or something.
 
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She's in a different country? What's the point in putting forth effort with this woman if there's little to no chance for sex? Since you've already wasted time with her, escalate things immediately and see if she'll visit for a bang. If she can't, forget about her. If she can, bang her... then forget about her.
 
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Are you going to be in the same place anytime soon? If not forget it.
 
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Well one of my plates was in a LDR ...I ****ed her & then her "boyfriend provided the emotional support for her.
One of the things I will NEVER consider , expecially in this generation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hilarious Yorkex! I am traveling to Dallas sometime next month for the first date. Looking forward to it. Staying for the weekend at her place, I am sure there will be a chance for a good bang, but what follows after that is up for debate. I have been on LDR with BPD EX and I don't need to say much how that turned out.

I am just curious if it's even worth the trip. But mind you I've never been to Dallas before so maybe worth a visit :)
 
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