Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it worth it? LDR

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I know the rule of thumb when it comes to long distance relationships, especially the view of those DJs on this board from whom i've learned a lot.

I met this girl online on one of those social sites. She sounds very much in to me, at least from her intial responses. Very high class, HB8, does counseling and psychotherapy sh!t.

I am a sucesfull guy myself, run my own business and have recources to pursue my goals including relationships.

Question is have any of you pusued sucessful relationship from a distace? i am talking about countries not states.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in one, but only because it's temporary and 4 hours apart. If you live in the US and she lives in another country than **** no unless you live in Seattle while she lives in Vancouver or something.
 
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She's in a different country? What's the point in putting forth effort with this woman if there's little to no chance for sex? Since you've already wasted time with her, escalate things immediately and see if she'll visit for a bang. If she can't, forget about her. If she can, bang her... then forget about her.
 
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Are you going to be in the same place anytime soon? If not forget it.
 
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Well one of my plates was in a LDR ...I ****ed her & then her "boyfriend provided the emotional support for her.
One of the things I will NEVER consider , expecially in this generation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hilarious Yorkex! I am traveling to Dallas sometime next month for the first date. Looking forward to it. Staying for the weekend at her place, I am sure there will be a chance for a good bang, but what follows after that is up for debate. I have been on LDR with BPD EX and I don't need to say much how that turned out.

I am just curious if it's even worth the trip. But mind you I've never been to Dallas before so maybe worth a visit :)
 
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