Is it virtually impossible for a chick to actually like you for you.

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Question is if DJ's are "aware" of women's "nature" and don't want to get married etc. and are just looking to "monkey branch" themselves why would they care about a chick monkey bran

If women aren't using you for MONEY, they are using you for something else.

You are naive as f*ck if you think women will give you something for nothing lol.

Nah it's beyond the realm of comprehension that a chick might not be using a dude. You take any negative trait possessed by humans in general and automatically assign them across the board as "constant absolute givens" to the opposite gender to suit your own deluded, insecure, paranoid mantra.

Get going your own way already.

 

[Urbanyst]

Question is if DJ's are "aware" of women's "nature" and don't want to get married etc. and are just looking to "monkey branch" themselves why would they care about a chick monkey bran


Nah it's beyond the realm of comprehension that a chick might not be using a dude. You take any negative trait possessed by humans in general and automatically assign them across the board as "constant absolute givens" to the opposite gender to suit your own deluded, insecure, paranoid mantra.

Get going your own way already.

Who said using people is a negative thing? YOU are the person assigning a negative quality to that behavior.

Everyone uses everyone. That is the foundation of all human relationships genius lol.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Who said using people is a negative thing? YOU are the person assigning a negative quality to that behavior.

Everyone uses everyone. That is the foundation of all human relationships genius lol.

Not everyone "uses" everyone. You buy groceries from the store. You aren't "using" them nor are they "using" you because you are exchanging things like money for goods and or services. If your friends treat you to a night out you're only "using" them if you never reciprocate.

Nice try though. I'm not buying it.

 

[Urbanyst]

Not everyone "uses" everyone. You buy groceries from the store. You aren't "using" them nor are they "using" you because you are exchanging things like money for goods and or services. If your friends treat you to a night out you're only "using" them if you never reciprocate.

Nice try though. I'm not buying it.

What you "buy" has no baring on the truth lol.

Exchanging goods for services is a form of using. You are using the store for food and the store is using you to make profits. Its an even exchange.. but both parties are benefiting from it.

The point is.. no one engages in a relationship where they have NOTHING to gain. People use other people. When your friends treat you.. they are using you for companionship, ego and bonding.They are also appealing to your loyalty in hopes you might treat them some day in the future.

There are no unconditional relationships. People have to gain something out of the relationship for THEMSELVES. Its actually pretty breathtaking that you don't understand this lol.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

What you "buy" has no baring on the truth lol.

Exchanging goods for services is a form of using. You are using the store for food and the store is using you to make profits. Its an even exchange.. but both parties are benefiting from it.

The point is.. no one engages in a relationship where they have NOTHING to gain. People use other people. When your friends treat you.. they are using you for companionship, ego and bonding.They are also appealing to your loyalty in hopes you might treat them some day in the future.

There are no unconditional relationships. People have to gain something out of the relationship for THEMSELVES. Its actually pretty breathtaking that you don't understand this lol.

You can flip it anyway you'd like practicing your mental gymnastics but there's a reason for the definition of someone who uses you and the definition of reciprocation.

You fail at using your own brain.

 

[Urbanyst]

You can flip it anyway you'd like practicing your mental gymnastics but there's a reason for the definition of someone who uses you and the definition of reciprocation.

You fail at using your own brain.

Whatever dude. You're just mad because you got nailed lol.