Is it virtually impossible for a chick to actually like you for you.

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Is it virtually impossible for a chick to actually like you for you without "game", "money", that elusive chasing rainbows "high value" that's "never good enough and you need more"?

Are you that insecure to think you have ZERO redeemable qualities about yourself that makes it impossible for a chick to actually like you for you?

And I'm not talking "just be yourself" I'm talking about being you best self.

But is it impossible for a chick to possibly like your looks, smile, sense of humor, kindness, cool personality, ambition, etc?

The chick may be a pain in the azz at times but she MAY actually like you despite "game" and other shyt.

Try to give yourselves some credit for once.
 

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But is it impossible for a chick to possibly like your looks, smile, sense of humor, kindness, cool personality, ambition, etc?

You're right! These are dependent on you perceptions.

Go with...... I'm awesome.... I am who I am....fvk kindness...... don't judge my personality.... and if you don't get my personality, you don't fit!
 

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I m often likeable and hateable. Always a reaction. It's indifference that kills.
 

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The only person that will ever like you for you is your parents and family. Even at that, some families only tolerate each other.

No woman will ever like you for you. That's just disney fairytale sh!t. Get that through your head.

A woman will only like you for what you can DO for her. It's not just women too. Men and women only care about what you can do for them. That's how people generally are.

Try saying no to someone and see how they react.
 

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Do you like a chick for her, or her pvssy.

Reverse that with money, status,stability etc.

Yes, after years together some people build a pair bond. This isn't to be sniffed at. I have friends who I dislike on some levels, but I would lend them my last £10. Because we have built long term trust.
 

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The only person that will ever like you for you is your parents and family.
So if a woman only likes you for your money, that's normal? I agree. Some people however still want to play the "she doesn't really love you" card.

Do you like a chick for her, or her pvssy.
Reverse that with money, status,stability etc.
You mean hire an escort? Oh, the hypocrisy.

It's virtually impossible for me to like a chick if she's ugly
We want to upgrade looks, they want to upgrade their lifestyle - eggs for resources. Fair is fair. Pay what things are worth. That's why hiring models to take photos is a great date idea and there is no shame in it. It's only when you make them promise sex for money that it becomes bad (destroying her attraction, for one).
 

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So if a woman only likes your for your money, that's normal? I agree. Some people however still want to play the "she doesn't really love you" card.


You mean hire an escort? Oh, the hypocrisy.
98.1% of your dates need you to pay for photoshoots or hotels.

:)
 

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I like a woman's personality, face, and figure. I think the face trumps everything... for you see the personality in the face anyway... so those two together outweigh the figure... unless the figure outweighs the scales of course....

If she is able to look you solidly in the eyes without any guile.... if she has a semi-permanent subtle smile on her lips, and a hearty laugh from time to time.. if there are no broody troubling expressions about her.... I find that attractive.

I'd say the same applies for women also... that that's what they'd find attractive.... the ones worth bothering about that is.
 
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That's why hiring models to take photos is a great date idea and there is no shame in it.
Neil, are you a troll? I am in no way a keeper of the sacred truths of being a DJ but I think this is as non-DJ as it could possibly get.

This is not dating - it's prostitution. Just hire a good quality escort.
 

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So if a woman only likes you for your money, that's normal? I agree. Some people however still want to play the "she doesn't really love you" card
If she only likes you for your money, yes, it's normal.

Yes, she doesn't really love you. She loves your money and what it can do for her.
 

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Do you like a chick for her, or her pvssy.

Reverse that with money, status,stability etc.

Yes, after years together some people build a pair bond. This isn't to be sniffed at. I have friends who I dislike on some levels, but I would lend them my last £10. Because we have built long term trust.
Some of them I like cause they're good people.
 

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It's entirely possible for a woman to like a man intrinsically. In fact I'd make the case if you find a woman like this who you also find attractive, that's your best bet on a LTR.

I find that if you are attracted to someone and you genuinely like who that other person is then the seeds of long term enjoyment, compatibility and friendship are there...this is a good sign.

I mean let's face it, you can only spend so much time in bed together and even the most gorgeous or handsome or richest person in the world is going to bore you or annoy you after a while if you don't like the other person.
 

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Is it virtually impossible for a chick to actually like you for you without "game", "money", that elusive chasing rainbows "high value" that's "never good enough and you need more"?

Are you that insecure to think you have ZERO redeemable qualities about yourself that makes it impossible for a chick to actually like you for you?

And I'm not talking "just be yourself" I'm talking about being you best self.

But is it impossible for a chick to possibly like your looks, smile, sense of humor, kindness, cool personality, ambition, etc?

The chick may be a pain in the azz at times but she MAY actually like you despite "game" and other shyt.

Try to give yourselves some credit for once.
You're so blue pill.. I don't even know where to start.
 
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You're so blue pill.. I don't even know where to start.
Enough of the "blue pill" nonsense and have some belief in yourself for once. If you cannot possibly envision any chick you like liking you specifically height, eyes, smile, voice, sense of humor, commonalities, style of dress, physique and on and on you must suffer from chronic depression.

Some of you dudes live in a paranoid state of fear and disdain. Get over your self-loathing "comfort" zone.
 

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At last, a non massive mysogynistic post.

"They're all hos etc"
If fools keep chasing "hot chicks" they'll be playing the games required for hos. You can get a decent looking one who will help you and show her how beautiful she really is
 

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Enough of the "blue pill" nonsense and have some belief in yourself for once. If you cannot possibly envision any chick you like liking you specifically height, eyes, smile, voice, sense of humor, commonalities, style of dress, physique and on and on you must suffer from chronic depression.

Some of you dudes live in a paranoid state of fear and disdain. Get over your self-loathing "comfort" zone.
They key is KNOWING your worthy
 

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If fools keep chasing "hot chicks" they'll be playing the games required for hos. You can get a decent looking one who will help you and show her how beautiful she really is
Exactly what I've been banging on about. Hot women are not born, they are made.

Like women chasing that one bad boy who treats them right.
 

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In the Immortal words of the boss. Don't matter what anybody tells you ain't nobody wants to be alone. I see homeless man and woman together all the time on the streets. The bar is set a lot lower than some of you guys think.
 
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