"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it possible

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devoncassidy

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Just wondering if anyone has seen this scenario before. Is it possible to have no social life if a guy is in good shape (if you watch it, think cj from real world cancun). The guy has no game but was able to get that one girl to go out with him by writing her a note. I'm not trying to start a looks vs confidence war. What I'm wondering is, are opportunities to be social more abundant if you are that kind of guy. Everyone I've known like that has been socially well off and didn't have troble with getting girls. Not once have I seen someone like that be a social outcast.

My post is referring more to teenage/college years
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Probably, especially if she had already liked him.

This doen't mean you should go down this route however my friend. Just skip the note and talk to her.
 
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devoncassidy

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No, there's not a situation I'm trying to apply this to. That was just an example. I just want to see if anyone has encountered an in shape hermit.
 
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Lots of people are trying to socially outcast me because I'm getting in shape! LOL

Quite a few friends have turned on me, followed by b1tches going behind my back, trying to bring me down.

People just don't like to see you succeed.
 
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