"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it possible

devoncassidy

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Just wondering if anyone has seen this scenario before. Is it possible to have no social life if a guy is in good shape (if you watch it, think cj from real world cancun). The guy has no game but was able to get that one girl to go out with him by writing her a note. I'm not trying to start a looks vs confidence war. What I'm wondering is, are opportunities to be social more abundant if you are that kind of guy. Everyone I've known like that has been socially well off and didn't have troble with getting girls. Not once have I seen someone like that be a social outcast.

My post is referring more to teenage/college years
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IKO69

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Probably, especially if she had already liked him.

This doen't mean you should go down this route however my friend. Just skip the note and talk to her.
 

devoncassidy

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No, there's not a situation I'm trying to apply this to. That was just an example. I just want to see if anyone has encountered an in shape hermit.
 

CaptainJ

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Lots of people are trying to socially outcast me because I'm getting in shape! LOL

Quite a few friends have turned on me, followed by b1tches going behind my back, trying to bring me down.

People just don't like to see you succeed.
 
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