"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just wondering if anyone has seen this scenario before. Is it possible to have no social life if a guy is in good shape (if you watch it, think cj from real world cancun). The guy has no game but was able to get that one girl to go out with him by writing her a note. I'm not trying to start a looks vs confidence war. What I'm wondering is, are opportunities to be social more abundant if you are that kind of guy. Everyone I've known like that has been socially well off and didn't have troble with getting girls. Not once have I seen someone like that be a social outcast.

My post is referring more to teenage/college years
 

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Probably, especially if she had already liked him.

This doen't mean you should go down this route however my friend. Just skip the note and talk to her.
 
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devoncassidy

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No, there's not a situation I'm trying to apply this to. That was just an example. I just want to see if anyone has encountered an in shape hermit.
 
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Lots of people are trying to socially outcast me because I'm getting in shape! LOL

Quite a few friends have turned on me, followed by b1tches going behind my back, trying to bring me down.

People just don't like to see you succeed.
 
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