"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it possible

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devoncassidy

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Just wondering if anyone has seen this scenario before. Is it possible to have no social life if a guy is in good shape (if you watch it, think cj from real world cancun). The guy has no game but was able to get that one girl to go out with him by writing her a note. I'm not trying to start a looks vs confidence war. What I'm wondering is, are opportunities to be social more abundant if you are that kind of guy. Everyone I've known like that has been socially well off and didn't have troble with getting girls. Not once have I seen someone like that be a social outcast.

My post is referring more to teenage/college years
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Probably, especially if she had already liked him.

This doen't mean you should go down this route however my friend. Just skip the note and talk to her.
 
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devoncassidy

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No, there's not a situation I'm trying to apply this to. That was just an example. I just want to see if anyone has encountered an in shape hermit.
 
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Lots of people are trying to socially outcast me because I'm getting in shape! LOL

Quite a few friends have turned on me, followed by b1tches going behind my back, trying to bring me down.

People just don't like to see you succeed.
 
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