"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GaryUranga

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Is it possible to be friends with a girl but still have the option of dating her open? I'll explain this better, theres this girl and I was/am really into her, however I met her in another town and distance sucks so I know that I have to work on getting over her, and thats fine, but we could possibly see each other more in the future, anyways Im ok with the fact of going for other girls etc etc, but Id hate to fall into this girl's friend zone, I want to keep my options open with her.

Btw, she actually liked me a while back and blah blah, she said she had to "stop herself" from liking me which I think is BS cause if a girl is attracted to you then she cant conciously stop it, Im still friends with her and we talk fairly often and thats cool but I dont know if this eventually will put me in friend zone, I keep being C+F and teasing her a lot (trying to get over her but still doing the "routine" lol)

aand.. if youre in "friend zone" is it possible to break it whenever you want?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the friends zone is very over rated.

show value and confidence and girls will keep the option of dating you or hooking up with you open.
 
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