"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GaryUranga

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Is it possible to be friends with a girl but still have the option of dating her open? I'll explain this better, theres this girl and I was/am really into her, however I met her in another town and distance sucks so I know that I have to work on getting over her, and thats fine, but we could possibly see each other more in the future, anyways Im ok with the fact of going for other girls etc etc, but Id hate to fall into this girl's friend zone, I want to keep my options open with her.

Btw, she actually liked me a while back and blah blah, she said she had to "stop herself" from liking me which I think is BS cause if a girl is attracted to you then she cant conciously stop it, Im still friends with her and we talk fairly often and thats cool but I dont know if this eventually will put me in friend zone, I keep being C+F and teasing her a lot (trying to get over her but still doing the "routine" lol)

aand.. if youre in "friend zone" is it possible to break it whenever you want?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Porky

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the friends zone is very over rated.

show value and confidence and girls will keep the option of dating you or hooking up with you open.
 
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