"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GaryUranga

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Is it possible to be friends with a girl but still have the option of dating her open? I'll explain this better, theres this girl and I was/am really into her, however I met her in another town and distance sucks so I know that I have to work on getting over her, and thats fine, but we could possibly see each other more in the future, anyways Im ok with the fact of going for other girls etc etc, but Id hate to fall into this girl's friend zone, I want to keep my options open with her.

Btw, she actually liked me a while back and blah blah, she said she had to "stop herself" from liking me which I think is BS cause if a girl is attracted to you then she cant conciously stop it, Im still friends with her and we talk fairly often and thats cool but I dont know if this eventually will put me in friend zone, I keep being C+F and teasing her a lot (trying to get over her but still doing the "routine" lol)

aand.. if youre in "friend zone" is it possible to break it whenever you want?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Porky

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the friends zone is very over rated.

show value and confidence and girls will keep the option of dating you or hooking up with you open.
 
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