"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GaryUranga

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Is it possible to be friends with a girl but still have the option of dating her open? I'll explain this better, theres this girl and I was/am really into her, however I met her in another town and distance sucks so I know that I have to work on getting over her, and thats fine, but we could possibly see each other more in the future, anyways Im ok with the fact of going for other girls etc etc, but Id hate to fall into this girl's friend zone, I want to keep my options open with her.

Btw, she actually liked me a while back and blah blah, she said she had to "stop herself" from liking me which I think is BS cause if a girl is attracted to you then she cant conciously stop it, Im still friends with her and we talk fairly often and thats cool but I dont know if this eventually will put me in friend zone, I keep being C+F and teasing her a lot (trying to get over her but still doing the "routine" lol)

aand.. if youre in "friend zone" is it possible to break it whenever you want?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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the friends zone is very over rated.

show value and confidence and girls will keep the option of dating you or hooking up with you open.
 
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