"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is it possible to make any girl want sex?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
typical
Master Don Juan
You sometimes have to just take them and show them the way yes its borderline rape but theres a fine line between rape and seduction you have to learn by trial and error. She may say no alot of times yet still keep making out with you, its when she angrily pushes you away is when you pull back and go back to just touching her lightly, then start again from square one and work your way back into it.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
, but not necessarily with YOU...:nono: :crackup: Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex
, even when I'm sleepy, even when I'm real tired, even when I'm depressed etc... as long as the girl is HOT enough to make up for the lack of good mood...I like this guy; smart post, good thinking.Le Parisien said:Of course any girl wants sex, even the lesbians
Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex
In my understanding, it's possible to make most women interested. The question is with whom. And the answer, I think, is a mix of who you physically and socially and your character and attitude.
Try different attitudes and tape yourself. Tape how you walk, how you talk. Tape your voice tone. And adjust. You will see HOW STUPID YOU LOOK AND ACT. You'll be surprised how you f.ucked anyone at all. Then change. Improve it. Won't take long. Then when you do, you'll have a lot more people interested in you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
brenbaus
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[R]eality said:
the shezz dont know your girls buttons, and neither do i, everyones buttons are different
Michael Chief
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tadhgire said:
Yes.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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