She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You wanna tell us the buttons, Shezzy?Shezz said:All girls want and love sex - you just have to know what buttons to press to raise her buying temperature.
Sarge On...
I like this guy; smart post, good thinking.Le Parisien said:Of course any girl wants sex, even the lesbians, but not necessarily with YOU...:nono: :crackup:
Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex, even when I'm sleepy, even when I'm real tired, even when I'm depressed etc... as long as the girl is HOT enough to make up for the lack of good mood...
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
[R]eality said:You wanna tell us the buttons, Shezzy?
tadhgire said:Is it possible to make any girl want sex?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.