She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You wanna tell us the buttons, Shezzy?Shezz said:All girls want and love sex - you just have to know what buttons to press to raise her buying temperature.
Sarge On...
I like this guy; smart post, good thinking.Le Parisien said:Of course any girl wants sex, even the lesbians, but not necessarily with YOU...:nono: :crackup:
Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex, even when I'm sleepy, even when I'm real tired, even when I'm depressed etc... as long as the girl is HOT enough to make up for the lack of good mood...
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
[R]eality said:You wanna tell us the buttons, Shezzy?
tadhgire said:Is it possible to make any girl want sex?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.