"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is it possible to make any girl want sex?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
typical
Master Don Juan
You sometimes have to just take them and show them the way yes its borderline rape but theres a fine line between rape and seduction you have to learn by trial and error. She may say no alot of times yet still keep making out with you, its when she angrily pushes you away is when you pull back and go back to just touching her lightly, then start again from square one and work your way back into it.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
, but not necessarily with YOU...:nono: :crackup: Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex
, even when I'm sleepy, even when I'm real tired, even when I'm depressed etc... as long as the girl is HOT enough to make up for the lack of good mood...I like this guy; smart post, good thinking.Le Parisien said:Of course any girl wants sex, even the lesbians
Just turn around the table:
If a girl was wondering/asking literally "Is it possible to make ANY GUY want sex?", as a guy, what would be YOUR answer?
Personally, I think it's always possible to make me want sex
In my understanding, it's possible to make most women interested. The question is with whom. And the answer, I think, is a mix of who you physically and socially and your character and attitude.
Try different attitudes and tape yourself. Tape how you walk, how you talk. Tape your voice tone. And adjust. You will see HOW STUPID YOU LOOK AND ACT. You'll be surprised how you f.ucked anyone at all. Then change. Improve it. Won't take long. Then when you do, you'll have a lot more people interested in you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
brenbaus
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[R]eality said:
the shezz dont know your girls buttons, and neither do i, everyones buttons are different
Michael Chief
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tadhgire said:
Yes.
Hitman10000
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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