Doctor Europeo
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Was talking about this with my cousin and he says it's not possible. What do you think?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Is it possible to break up with a gf without her crying?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheMonkeyKing
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If you're a masculine man and she's a feminine woman, probably not.
Serenity
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It's possible, but it depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up and how she deals with it. Even if they wanted it to end they could still cry, it kinda hurts thinking about the time wasted just to end with nothing.
QuadDeuces
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I spoke to my ex on the phone yesterday, she was sobbing like crazy.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I think her tears are tools and should be ignored unless you purposely engineered them
mrgoodstuff
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Probably one of her friends helped her with that mindset.
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If a tree falls in the woods and there is nobody around to hear it, does it make a sound?
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.