Doctor Europeo
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Was talking about this with my cousin and he says it's not possible. What do you think?
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Is it possible to break up with a gf without her crying?
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TheMonkeyKing
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If you're a masculine man and she's a feminine woman, probably not.
Serenity
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It's possible, but it depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up and how she deals with it. Even if they wanted it to end they could still cry, it kinda hurts thinking about the time wasted just to end with nothing.
QuadDeuces
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I spoke to my ex on the phone yesterday, she was sobbing like crazy.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I think her tears are tools and should be ignored unless you purposely engineered them
mrgoodstuff
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Probably one of her friends helped her with that mindset.
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If a tree falls in the woods and there is nobody around to hear it, does it make a sound?
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.