Doctor Europeo
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Was talking about this with my cousin and he says it's not possible. What do you think?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Is it possible to break up with a gf without her crying?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheMonkeyKing
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If you're a masculine man and she's a feminine woman, probably not.
Serenity
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It's possible, but it depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up and how she deals with it. Even if they wanted it to end they could still cry, it kinda hurts thinking about the time wasted just to end with nothing.
QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
I spoke to my ex on the phone yesterday, she was sobbing like crazy.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
While she was the one who had the magic revelation that we should break up.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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I think her tears are tools and should be ignored unless you purposely engineered them
mrgoodstuff
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Probably one of her friends helped her with that mindset.
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If a tree falls in the woods and there is nobody around to hear it, does it make a sound?
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.
Don't stick around to discuss or see her cry.
"Sorry, this isn't working out and I need to move on and explore other avenues. Take care" - with a smile on your face. Then leave. No discussion. Especially if it was her idea.
Then you drive off, delete her off social media and block her number. Then start hitting up plates. Start fvcking immediately.
Crying at that point doesn't exist. The decision has been made. You're not there to see it.