Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it possible?...Is it worth it?

texmex23

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Is it possible for a girl to like you again after you "chose" another girl over her and stops liking you. (wanted to get laid, but she didn't know that...It always comes back and bites you in the ass). Considering i've been cool with her ever since that incident and been flirting with her alot lately. Is it worth it to pursue it if you find out she likes some other guy. Are her feelings gonna change?

So many questions. Sigh
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ4Real

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It depends on how you respond to this whether or not her feelings will change....don't pursue her...attract her.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Exactly man, Attract her.

Find common values again with her....bring up fun times youve had in the past....she will relate those feelings with YOU....and feel the same way she did before hand.

A tactic I like to use is to call her "friend".....I would say things like "hey friend come here" "omg your such a good friend" "you pretty cool, Im glad were good friends"

At this time, I dont sugest using negs....for one thing...MOST high school girls are less responsive to negs....also youve kinda DLV'ed her too much by your ditching her for another girl.....so pack on the funny and scarce the ****y.....until you get her back to the way you guys used to be.


~Smooth

BTW: Week 2 of my bootcamp is now an AUDIO sign up in my signature
 

texmex23

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Awesome stuff. Has anyone had this type of situation before?
 
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