"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it possible?...Is it worth it?

texmex23

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Is it possible for a girl to like you again after you "chose" another girl over her and stops liking you. (wanted to get laid, but she didn't know that...It always comes back and bites you in the ass). Considering i've been cool with her ever since that incident and been flirting with her alot lately. Is it worth it to pursue it if you find out she likes some other guy. Are her feelings gonna change?

So many questions. Sigh
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ4Real

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It depends on how you respond to this whether or not her feelings will change....don't pursue her...attract her.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Exactly man, Attract her.

Find common values again with her....bring up fun times youve had in the past....she will relate those feelings with YOU....and feel the same way she did before hand.

A tactic I like to use is to call her "friend".....I would say things like "hey friend come here" "omg your such a good friend" "you pretty cool, Im glad were good friends"

At this time, I dont sugest using negs....for one thing...MOST high school girls are less responsive to negs....also youve kinda DLV'ed her too much by your ditching her for another girl.....so pack on the funny and scarce the ****y.....until you get her back to the way you guys used to be.


~Smooth

BTW: Week 2 of my bootcamp is now an AUDIO sign up in my signature
 

texmex23

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Awesome stuff. Has anyone had this type of situation before?
 
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