"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it possible?...Is it worth it?

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texmex23

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Is it possible for a girl to like you again after you "chose" another girl over her and stops liking you. (wanted to get laid, but she didn't know that...It always comes back and bites you in the ass). Considering i've been cool with her ever since that incident and been flirting with her alot lately. Is it worth it to pursue it if you find out she likes some other guy. Are her feelings gonna change?

So many questions. Sigh
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ4Real

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It depends on how you respond to this whether or not her feelings will change....don't pursue her...attract her.
 
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Exactly man, Attract her.

Find common values again with her....bring up fun times youve had in the past....she will relate those feelings with YOU....and feel the same way she did before hand.

A tactic I like to use is to call her "friend".....I would say things like "hey friend come here" "omg your such a good friend" "you pretty cool, Im glad were good friends"

At this time, I dont sugest using negs....for one thing...MOST high school girls are less responsive to negs....also youve kinda DLV'ed her too much by your ditching her for another girl.....so pack on the funny and scarce the ****y.....until you get her back to the way you guys used to be.


~Smooth

BTW: Week 2 of my bootcamp is now an AUDIO sign up in my signature
 
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Awesome stuff. Has anyone had this type of situation before?
 
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