"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it possible?...Is it worth it?

texmex23

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Is it possible for a girl to like you again after you "chose" another girl over her and stops liking you. (wanted to get laid, but she didn't know that...It always comes back and bites you in the ass). Considering i've been cool with her ever since that incident and been flirting with her alot lately. Is it worth it to pursue it if you find out she likes some other guy. Are her feelings gonna change?

So many questions. Sigh
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Real

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It depends on how you respond to this whether or not her feelings will change....don't pursue her...attract her.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Exactly man, Attract her.

Find common values again with her....bring up fun times youve had in the past....she will relate those feelings with YOU....and feel the same way she did before hand.

A tactic I like to use is to call her "friend".....I would say things like "hey friend come here" "omg your such a good friend" "you pretty cool, Im glad were good friends"

At this time, I dont sugest using negs....for one thing...MOST high school girls are less responsive to negs....also youve kinda DLV'ed her too much by your ditching her for another girl.....so pack on the funny and scarce the ****y.....until you get her back to the way you guys used to be.


~Smooth

BTW: Week 2 of my bootcamp is now an AUDIO sign up in my signature
 

texmex23

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Awesome stuff. Has anyone had this type of situation before?
 
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